To Escort or Not to Escort, That is the Question May 25, 2008

In the brief time that I’ve had a profile on a couple of online sugardaddy dating sites, I’ve gotten a number of very interesting emails.  Some have been very forward – essentially seeing me as nothing more than a prostitute who should be willing to give a man sex in exchange for money.  Others have been more subtle, but the intent was still clear – sex for money.

However, I got an email this morning – don’t ask why I’m up so early, I’ll talk about that later – that has me really thinking about whether or not a side job as a very high class escort would really be so bad.  The email wasn’t from one of the usual men, this was actually from a business telling me that they often have very wealthy clients who want upscale, attractive young women for companionship when they are in town.  No mention of sex, stripping, dancing, or anything like that.  Just companionship in exchange for as much as $2,000 for an evening.

I have to admit, this email made me stop and think…  Could this be a potential way to meet my favorite type of sugardaddy?  My favorite type of sugar daddy is the wealthy businessman that travels and wants a “Barbie Doll” to accompany him on trips and whenever he’s in town.  It’s clear that these men wouldn’t be local, so they have to be traveling to my area…

I’m thinking about it, but will I do it?  I emailed them back to ask for more information and to set up a meeting to discuss in more detail.

What do you think?

An Email I Received Today May 19, 2008

I posted yesterday about the great date I had with T. Well, I got an amazing first impression from him and the whole idea of finding my perfect sugar daddy online. Today, I received a few emails and one in particular stood out that made me realize that there are a lot of men who really just want a high class escort and are afraid to come out and say it:

I’m a young doctor visiting until Tues May 20 – I’m seeking an intimate encounter in my luxurious hotel. I’m an honest guy and I’ll tell you what I’m looking for – I’ll gladly give you money/gifts for sex – can’t get any more honest than that! Maybe something develops, maybe it doesn’t. I only visit a few times a year, but I’ll take care of you all year, so you’d have your freedom. Does that relationship sound like a possibility to you? I promise to treat you well, spend money on you, and show you a good time… write me back

Well, Mr. Young Doctor, I’m not that type of girl. The relationships that I have are not about sex for money. They really aren’t, despite any ideas you may have about a girl who is a “sugar baby”. The only difference from a typical dating situation is that I date men who want a very attractive, younger woman and are willing to be generous with gifts, trips, and sometimes money. A good sugardaddy/sugarbaby relationship to me is more than just the occasional gift and a roll in the hay – there has to be an emotional connection, even if it is a connection based on the fantasy of being with a “Barbie Doll” or beautiful and intelligent younger woman.

Comparing Mr. Young Doctor to Jim (not his real name), my former boyfriend from Las Vegas, is night and day. The first thing Mr. Young Doctor mentions is sex. Jim never once in the 6 months we were involved mentioned sex – all the times we did, it was me who took the lead. Most of our time together was spent out on the town – dinners, dancing, shopping, and shows.

I won’t let this discourage me, but I think that I’m going to find more men online that are like this than are like my fabulous T.