I was reading this post on the SeekingArrangement blog tonight (Sugar Baby Wonders If She’s Asking for Too Much) and started wondering what some people really think a Sugarbaby arrangement is really all about.
I’m not going to sit here and lie and say that a Sugarbaby arrangement does not have the expectation of generosity in terms of gifts and money. However, I have never even considered discussing any sort of monthly allowance with the men I’ve dated – it is up to them to decide what sort of gifts or allowance is appropriate, not me. What is up to me is the decision of whether or not the gifts are enough to keep my attention.
In my experience, when I have found the right Sugardaddy the gifts or allowance will work itself out and will be enough to make both of us happy. My former Attorney Sugardaddy from New York ptobably never gave me less than $4,000 a month in gifts of money, jewelry, clothes, etc and sometimes when we were together for a long weekend or trip that amount went even higher. In exchange, he knew that I would be ready for him any time he needed to get away for a weekend or just wanted an exciting night on the town.
