Sugar Baby Wonders If She’s Asking for Too Much May 19, 2008

I was reading this post on the SeekingArrangement blog tonight (Sugar Baby Wonders If She’s Asking for Too Much) and started wondering what some people really think a Sugarbaby arrangement is really all about.

I’m not going to sit here and lie and say that a Sugarbaby arrangement does not have the expectation of generosity in terms of gifts and money.  However, I have never even considered discussing any sort of monthly allowance with the men I’ve dated – it is up to them to decide what sort of gifts or allowance is appropriate, not me.  What is up to me is the decision of whether or not the gifts are enough to keep my attention.

In my experience, when I have found the right Sugardaddy the gifts or allowance will work itself out and will be enough to make both of us happy.  My former Attorney Sugardaddy from New York ptobably never gave me less than $4,000 a month in gifts of money, jewelry, clothes, etc and sometimes when we were together for a long weekend or trip that amount went even higher.  In exchange, he knew that I would be ready for him any time he needed to get away for a weekend or just wanted an exciting night on the town.

Meeting T May 18, 2008

I just got home from a fantastic date. For the sake of privacy, I’ll just call him T on this blog. T is actually the first potential sugar daddy I’ve ever met online and so far, so good. I know most probably won’t go this well, but he definitely made me re-think my opinion of online dating.

He suggested we meet for drinks at the bar at a very nice hotel, so I wanted to make sure to be extra cute and really show off for him. The new dress I bought this morning really looked great and I could tell how much he appreciated the view he got of my legs – the dress is barely past mid thigh on me. He was in jeans and a jacket, but I could easily recognize his watch. One of the first things I look at is a man’s watch and shoes – some things can be faked, but a gold Patek Phillipe can’t.

We settled into a booth together and he ordered champagne for both of us. We sat for about 45 minutes and talked about his business, travels, and the typical things you talk about on a first date. After our drinks, we got up to take a short walk and talked some more – planning a second date, what sort of arrangement would work for both of us.

I normally don’t sleep with a man on the first date and today was no exception. However, the real reason we didn’t is because he had to get home to his wife for dinner. Seriously, he completely swept me off my feet from the moment we started talking to the moment we parted with a soft, lingering kiss.

I’ll meet him for dinnner and shopping later this week. If all goes well, we’ll set something regular up. Either way, I’m always going to have a backup plan.

Kisses,
AllieSB

Beginnings… May 18, 2008

There are many ideas and preconceived notions about a woman who chooses to be a sugarbaby, mistress, paramour, or whatever you might choose to call it.

I don’t like to label myself as any of those, but simply see myself as a beautiful young woman who enjoys the company of successful, wealthy men and the benefits they can provide.

In the past 3 years, I have dated a married attorney from New York and a 58 year old confirmed bachelor from Las Vegas. I’ve had various other dates and encounters, but dated these two the longest. They both had one thing in common: they wanted a beautiful trophy on their arm and in their beds. To me, it is only natural that I expected them to be very generous in return.

In this blog, I’ll share some stories from these past relationships and from my experiences moving forward. For now, I’ve got to run and begin getting ready for a date this evening… It’s a first date and I want to be sure to impress.

Kisses,
AllieSB