Comments for Diary of a Sugar Baby http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com These are the secrets, confessions, and thoughts of a modern day paramour. Sun, 23 Aug 2009 18:47:05 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Sugar Baby Wonders If She’s Asking for Too Much by Brooke http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/19/sugar-baby-wonders-if-she%e2%80%99s-asking-for-too-much/#comment-44 Brooke Sun, 23 Aug 2009 18:47:05 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=10#comment-44 To Mimi- I have a SD and no boyfriend, if I meet someone that I am intrested in I date them but if not no big deal. If you can get lucky enough your SD will be able to provide all of your wants and needs. And any other man that comes along better bring it when he does!! To Mimi- I have a SD and no boyfriend, if I meet someone that I am intrested in I date them but if not no big deal. If you can get lucky enough your SD will be able to provide all of your wants and needs. And any other man that comes along better bring it when he does!!

]]> Comment on Sugar Baby Wonders If She’s Asking for Too Much by mimi http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/19/sugar-baby-wonders-if-she%e2%80%99s-asking-for-too-much/#comment-43 mimi Tue, 18 Aug 2009 08:44:35 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=10#comment-43 hi. i really enjoyed the info. am new at this..actually am a baby at being a sugar baby., barely a month into it and the guy is so generous..he's married and i ,ve known him for about two years bt the "arrangement" only just began..here's the problem, i have a regular boyfriend( my SD knws of this and is perfectly fine with it), although our relationship is rocky..infact we are separated, smtimes i cant seem to keep him off my back when i want to spend time with my SD. im considering leaving my bf and just concentrating on the SD, dont gt me wrong, i dont expect him to leave his wife ever..but he jus treats me way better than my bf...he's given me so much n all my bf seems to do is take!...any thoughts? hi. i really enjoyed the info. am new at this..actually am a baby at being a sugar baby., barely a month into it and the guy is so generous..he’s married and i ,ve known him for about two years bt the “arrangement” only just began..here’s the problem, i have a regular boyfriend( my SD knws of this and is perfectly fine with it), although our relationship is rocky..infact we are separated, smtimes i cant seem to keep him off my back when i want to spend time with my SD. im considering leaving my bf and just concentrating on the SD, dont gt me wrong, i dont expect him to leave his wife ever..but he jus treats me way better than my bf…he’s given me so much n all my bf seems to do is take!…any thoughts?

]]> Comment on Beginnings… by akeptwoman http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/18/beginnings/#comment-42 akeptwoman Wed, 12 Aug 2009 03:45:25 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=4#comment-42 Hi, it looks like we're in the same game... but for different reasons... my blog is akeptwoman.wordpress.com I think it's interesting to have these different perspectives Hi, it looks like we’re in the same game… but for different reasons… my blog is akeptwoman.wordpress.com I think it’s interesting to have these different perspectives

]]> Comment on Sugar Baby Wonders If She’s Asking for Too Much by SerenaMae http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/19/sugar-baby-wonders-if-she%e2%80%99s-asking-for-too-much/#comment-41 SerenaMae Thu, 30 Jul 2009 01:16:19 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=10#comment-41 Thank you all and the original poster/blogger for your thoughts, I really appreciate the sugar baby and sugar daddies' comments. I am new to this SB/SD arrangement and so is the current SD I am meeting/talking to. I don't want to insult him by being forward or seem eager to receive money/gifts. One thing that has really aggravated me and made me want to give up on trying to get a SD is that the majority of them would mention sex the first time around and get mad and stop emailing when I mentioned money and an expected allowance - open to negotiation. One I actually talked over the phone with and he was ready to hang up because apparently he was making between 200,000-300,000 USD and could not even give me a simple allowance of $4,000.00 a month. Do these guys only think that being a SB is to provide sex at the SD whim? And that they don't have to do anything in return? Some have even said, well I should charge you, since you are having sex with me! To me; being a SB is not just sex, its like being the girlfriend or wife they never had and without the actual commitment of being one. The companionship, eye candy on his arm when he takes you out to expensive places, having fun in the sense of going out to the malls, movies, beach, ect. Thank you all and the original poster/blogger for your thoughts, I really appreciate the sugar baby and sugar daddies’ comments. I am new to this SB/SD arrangement and so is the current SD I am meeting/talking to. I don’t want to insult him by being forward or seem eager to receive money/gifts.

One thing that has really aggravated me and made me want to give up on trying to get a SD is that the majority of them would mention sex the first time around and get mad and stop emailing when I mentioned money and an expected allowance – open to negotiation. One I actually talked over the phone with and he was ready to hang up because apparently he was making between 200,000-300,000 USD and could not even give me a simple allowance of $4,000.00 a month.

Do these guys only think that being a SB is to provide sex at the SD whim? And that they don’t have to do anything in return? Some have even said, well I should charge you, since you are having sex with me!

To me; being a SB is not just sex, its like being the girlfriend or wife they never had and without the actual commitment of being one. The companionship, eye candy on his arm when he takes you out to expensive places, having fun in the sense of going out to the malls, movies, beach, ect.

]]> Comment on To Escort or Not to Escort, That is the Question by SerenaMae http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/to-escort-or-not-to-escort-that-is-the-question/#comment-40 SerenaMae Thu, 30 Jul 2009 00:52:42 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=13#comment-40 I too have tried some Sugar Daddy dating sites, and unfortunately have had the same sort of thing. I like the way you worded what they'd ask. I have had a lot straight up say they want 'fun' and i don't know about you - but most of them thought that they didn't have to give me anything in return. As if I was a free prostitute or so desperate for a Sugar Daddy that I'd give them free sex in exchange for no or little money. Have even had Sugar Baby males contact me as if I'd want to hook up with another Sugar Baby? So now I straight up tell them what I am looking for and if they don't like it - well then I have crossed one more from my list of no's! This one potential Sugar Daddy keeps telling me he wants to do it, but until I see the money he isn't getting anything! And make sure not to accept checks. Cash or Direct Deposit. Also that sounds absolutely wonderful, the latter that is. Let us know what happens. Even though they don't outright mention those other things; stripping, sex, ECT. be careful - make sure you know what you are getting into first. Make them show you in writing or something. Just because they don't mention it, the extra 'left out' perks just might be a special that some guys expect. I have seen a movie where girls were 'Escorts' as in 'no sex' however one of the guys wanted it and they were tricked into it...but that is just a movie...I have to thought about it as well...the escort business. I too have tried some Sugar Daddy dating sites, and unfortunately have had the same sort of thing. I like the way you worded what they’d ask. I have had a lot straight up say they want ‘fun’ and i don’t know about you – but most of them thought that they didn’t have to give me anything in return. As if I was a free prostitute or so desperate for a Sugar Daddy that I’d give them free sex in exchange for no or little money. Have even had Sugar Baby males contact me as if I’d want to hook up with another Sugar Baby? So now I straight up tell them what I am looking for and if they don’t like it – well then I have crossed one more from my list of no’s! This one potential Sugar Daddy keeps telling me he wants to do it, but until I see the money he isn’t getting anything! And make sure not to accept checks. Cash or Direct Deposit.

Also that sounds absolutely wonderful, the latter that is. Let us know what happens. Even though they don’t outright mention those other things; stripping, sex, ECT. be careful – make sure you know what you are getting into first. Make them show you in writing or something. Just because they don’t mention it, the extra ‘left out’ perks just might be a special that some guys expect. I have seen a movie where girls were ‘Escorts’ as in ‘no sex’ however one of the guys wanted it and they were tricked into it…but that is just a movie…I have to thought about it as well…the escort business.

]]> Comment on Meeting T by Rachel http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/18/meeting-t/#comment-39 Rachel Sat, 20 Jun 2009 13:02:13 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=6#comment-39 That is what has hindered me from moving into the whole "sugar daddy" world. Who is real and who is fake? The whole process is tiring, with guys who seem interested for a good minute, only for them to dissappear once I ask for photos of them. :( That is what has hindered me from moving into the whole “sugar daddy” world. Who is real and who is fake? The whole process is tiring, with guys who seem interested for a good minute, only for them to dissappear once I ask for photos of them. :(

]]> Comment on An Email I Received Today by Georgie http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/19/an-email-i-received-today/#comment-38 Georgie Thu, 12 Mar 2009 04:06:04 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=7#comment-38 well i'm considering on being a sugar baby, and i'm meeting this guy this friday and i'm not sure what i need to say...i need the financial support but i don't really want to have sex...so i don't know if i should go through it. well i’m considering on being a sugar baby, and i’m meeting this guy this friday and i’m not sure what i need to say…i need the financial support but i don’t really want to have sex…so i don’t know if i should go through it.

]]> Comment on Where to Meet a Sugardaddy: Hotel Bar by ayanna http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/21/where-to-meet-a-sugardaddy-hotel-bar/#comment-36 ayanna Thu, 26 Feb 2009 04:40:16 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=12#comment-36 i went on a date with a guy i met from seekingarrangements.com, we went to a restaraunt, then got massages, after that we went on a helicopter ride, then we went on a boat ride at lake las vegas. to date my best date i went on a date with a guy i met from seekingarrangements.com, we went to a restaraunt, then got massages, after that we went on a helicopter ride, then we went on a boat ride at lake las vegas. to date my best date

]]> Comment on To Escort or Not to Escort, That is the Question by brownsugar http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/25/to-escort-or-not-to-escort-that-is-the-question/#comment-34 brownsugar Fri, 28 Nov 2008 04:39:56 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=13#comment-34 I have to be honest with you, most guys on Sugar daddy websites are big big fakes!! believe me i've had a horror experience .....*message me if you get a chance* (brownsugartv@gmail.com) ...i think you're first idea was best...about meeting SD's ...nice hotel bars. Please don't let them take advantage of you..been down that road one too many times I have to be honest with you, most guys on Sugar daddy websites are big big fakes!! believe me i’ve had a horror experience …..*message me if you get a chance* (brownsugartv@gmail.com) …i think you’re first idea was best…about meeting SD’s …nice hotel bars.

Please don’t let them take advantage of you..been down that road one too many times

]]> Comment on Sugar Baby Wonders If She’s Asking for Too Much by stretch http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/2008/05/19/sugar-baby-wonders-if-she%e2%80%99s-asking-for-too-much/#comment-33 stretch Tue, 11 Nov 2008 18:07:46 +0000 http://sugarbabydiary.wordpress.com/?p=10#comment-33 Here is the view of 1 experienced sugar daddy. Everyone knows that money is part of the equation in a sugar daddy/baby relationship ... the question is how much money. Be explicit about your expectations. If he's real, he won't waste his time (or yours) if your expectations are too high. Here is the view of 1 experienced sugar daddy. Everyone knows that money is part of the equation in a sugar daddy/baby relationship … the question is how much money. Be explicit about your expectations. If he’s real, he won’t waste his time (or yours) if your expectations are too high.

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