Diary of a Sugar Baby

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To Escort or Not to Escort, That is the Question May 25, 2008

Filed under: Musings, SugarDaddies — AllieSugarBaby @ 7:16 am
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In the brief time that I’ve had a profile on a couple of online sugardaddy dating sites, I’ve gotten a number of very interesting emails.  Some have been very forward – essentially seeing me as nothing more than a prostitute who should be willing to give a man sex in exchange for money.  Others have been more subtle, but the intent was still clear – sex for money.

However, I got an email this morning – don’t ask why I’m up so early, I’ll talk about that later – that has me really thinking about whether or not a side job as a very high class escort would really be so bad.  The email wasn’t from one of the usual men, this was actually from a business telling me that they often have very wealthy clients who want upscale, attractive young women for companionship when they are in town.  No mention of sex, stripping, dancing, or anything like that.  Just companionship in exchange for as much as $2,000 for an evening.

I have to admit, this email made me stop and think…  Could this be a potential way to meet my favorite type of sugardaddy?  My favorite type of sugar daddy is the wealthy businessman that travels and wants a “Barbie Doll” to accompany him on trips and whenever he’s in town.  It’s clear that these men wouldn’t be local, so they have to be traveling to my area…

I’m thinking about it, but will I do it?  I emailed them back to ask for more information and to set up a meeting to discuss in more detail.

What do you think?

 

12 Responses to “To Escort or Not to Escort, That is the Question”

  1. Toys Says:

    I think you should go for it! But if it involves intimacy then probably not, take care xxx

  2. tj Says:

    Thanks for starting this blog. I will be tuning in regularly.

  3. Chrisnjr1 Says:

    I think that if you’ve considered it and not ruled it out by now, then give it a try and see how you like it. After all, you’ve become open to the SD/SB thing knowing what the men look for. But, if you find it not good for you, then don’t just continue to pay the bills, because your self-esteem isn’t worth any money. good luck

  4. ilnj Says:

    That you’re being naive. Even if you are 1 in a 100 there are over a million just like you. Some escorts are famous models and actresses, and they “go all the way”. That companionship thing is just a way to lure you in legally. If they said “we need new prostitutes” someone would turn them in and they’d go to jail. If you don’t go all the way, they’ll stop calling you after one night. BTW, most of the guys who responded to your sugar baby posting are fake.

  5. Janey Says:

    ilnj is right. These guys just want sex, conversation, and to show you off. Be careful of the fakes on those sites because there are so many. I can not tell you the number of losers who would promise me the world only to find out three weeks later that they were just weirdos looking for a thrill. A lot of guys wish they were rich so that they can have a hot girlfriend, be careful.

  6. vanessa Says:

    what are these websites you go on?

  7. We have lots of sexy escorts and make sure all the girls enjoy their job if you are worried about going it alone work for a decent agency first

  8. most of the escort business in the uk is based in london but manchester is also popular

  9. Hmmm, i don’t know…I would say no.
    Looking forward to reading what your decision is :)

  10. bellaisabella15 Says:

    I have been an escort ( as in call girl) for 2 years, and I do not regret a day of it. When you are an escort, you can decide when, who want what you make, I have always choose it over being a kept woman or sugarbaby. If you want more information, please feel free to visit my blog.

  11. brownsugar Says:

    I have to be honest with you, most guys on Sugar daddy websites are big big fakes!! believe me i’ve had a horror experience …..*message me if you get a chance* (brownsugartv@gmail.com) …i think you’re first idea was best…about meeting SD’s …nice hotel bars.

    Please don’t let them take advantage of you..been down that road one too many times

  12. SerenaMae Says:

    I too have tried some Sugar Daddy dating sites, and unfortunately have had the same sort of thing. I like the way you worded what they’d ask. I have had a lot straight up say they want ‘fun’ and i don’t know about you – but most of them thought that they didn’t have to give me anything in return. As if I was a free prostitute or so desperate for a Sugar Daddy that I’d give them free sex in exchange for no or little money. Have even had Sugar Baby males contact me as if I’d want to hook up with another Sugar Baby? So now I straight up tell them what I am looking for and if they don’t like it – well then I have crossed one more from my list of no’s! This one potential Sugar Daddy keeps telling me he wants to do it, but until I see the money he isn’t getting anything! And make sure not to accept checks. Cash or Direct Deposit.

    Also that sounds absolutely wonderful, the latter that is. Let us know what happens. Even though they don’t outright mention those other things; stripping, sex, ECT. be careful – make sure you know what you are getting into first. Make them show you in writing or something. Just because they don’t mention it, the extra ‘left out’ perks just might be a special that some guys expect. I have seen a movie where girls were ‘Escorts’ as in ‘no sex’ however one of the guys wanted it and they were tricked into it…but that is just a movie…I have to thought about it as well…the escort business.


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