I posted yesterday about the great date I had with T. Well, I got an amazing first impression from him and the whole idea of finding my perfect sugar daddy online. Today, I received a few emails and one in particular stood out that made me realize that there are a lot of men who really just want a high class escort and are afraid to come out and say it:
I’m a young doctor visiting until Tues May 20 – I’m seeking an intimate encounter in my luxurious hotel. I’m an honest guy and I’ll tell you what I’m looking for – I’ll gladly give you money/gifts for sex – can’t get any more honest than that! Maybe something develops, maybe it doesn’t. I only visit a few times a year, but I’ll take care of you all year, so you’d have your freedom. Does that relationship sound like a possibility to you? I promise to treat you well, spend money on you, and show you a good time… write me back
Well, Mr. Young Doctor, I’m not that type of girl. The relationships that I have are not about sex for money. They really aren’t, despite any ideas you may have about a girl who is a “sugar baby”. The only difference from a typical dating situation is that I date men who want a very attractive, younger woman and are willing to be generous with gifts, trips, and sometimes money. A good sugardaddy/sugarbaby relationship to me is more than just the occasional gift and a roll in the hay – there has to be an emotional connection, even if it is a connection based on the fantasy of being with a “Barbie Doll” or beautiful and intelligent younger woman.
Comparing Mr. Young Doctor to Jim (not his real name), my former boyfriend from Las Vegas, is night and day. The first thing Mr. Young Doctor mentions is sex. Jim never once in the 6 months we were involved mentioned sex – all the times we did, it was me who took the lead. Most of our time together was spent out on the town – dinners, dancing, shopping, and shows.
I won’t let this discourage me, but I think that I’m going to find more men online that are like this than are like my fabulous T.
I’m considering a sugar daddy arrangement for the first time, but unlike your post, this will be a sexual relationship. I at least know that our sexual tastes match up, and I like having sex, but I’m not sure if I should go through with it. He wants to meet me today… I have a boyfriend who loves me. But debt is calling. And there’s so much in life that I haven’t done yet. Augh. Any words of wisdom?
I am meeting one this week too. I had my first sugar daddy that only lasted 2 weeks. I got some money out of him but I think he really lacked the funds to be a real sugar daddy. But it was a good starter. I have had several offers that are pending to later in the month (july) but have one that will be of an intimate nature if I accept. I don’t have a steady relationship other than the affair I have been having for the past years which is not a monetary one. I do need the money to as my paycheck sucks. So I say give it a try, after all most sugardaddy offers do involve sex. I find it hard to believe some of the profiles I read where a woman wants 20K a month but states there will be nothing sexual.
I want to add that obviously, your boyfriend isn’t helping you out financially, so you have a right to get a sugardaddy.
I know that sometimes it gets tiring , fishing..
But it is all worth it in the long run.
dont give up
well i’m considering on being a sugar baby, and i’m meeting this guy this friday and i’m not sure what i need to say…i need the financial support but i don’t really want to have sex…so i don’t know if i should go through it.