I just got home from a fantastic date. For the sake of privacy, I’ll just call him T on this blog. T is actually the first potential sugar daddy I’ve ever met online and so far, so good. I know most probably won’t go this well, but he definitely made me re-think my opinion of online dating.
He suggested we meet for drinks at the bar at a very nice hotel, so I wanted to make sure to be extra cute and really show off for him. The new dress I bought this morning really looked great and I could tell how much he appreciated the view he got of my legs – the dress is barely past mid thigh on me. He was in jeans and a jacket, but I could easily recognize his watch. One of the first things I look at is a man’s watch and shoes – some things can be faked, but a gold Patek Phillipe can’t.
We settled into a booth together and he ordered champagne for both of us. We sat for about 45 minutes and talked about his business, travels, and the typical things you talk about on a first date. After our drinks, we got up to take a short walk and talked some more – planning a second date, what sort of arrangement would work for both of us.
I normally don’t sleep with a man on the first date and today was no exception. However, the real reason we didn’t is because he had to get home to his wife for dinner. Seriously, he completely swept me off my feet from the moment we started talking to the moment we parted with a soft, lingering kiss.
I’ll meet him for dinnner and shopping later this week. If all goes well, we’ll set something regular up. Either way, I’m always going to have a backup plan.
Kisses,
AllieSB
I think you are smart to always have a backup plan and noticing a mans watch to make sure he isn’t a fake sugar daddy. I have had four sugar daddies in the last year, can you believe it? At one point I had three of them going at once, but I let one of them go and the other one moved out of the country so now I’m just down to the one. Having a sugar daddy is great because I don’t have to slave away my whole life at some awful desk job, but at the same time it’s not guaranteed money every month. Your man T is married? Wait until the holidays roll around and be prepared for abandonment. He’ll come back, but the only only way to really be set for life is to marry rich.
That is what has hindered me from moving into the whole “sugar daddy” world. Who is real and who is fake? The whole process is tiring, with guys who seem interested for a good minute, only for them to dissappear once I ask for photos of them.